Originally Posted by whiteladybug2002
It is hard being a teen, I know I used to be one and yes I make my fair share of stupid mistakes. What is done is done, you can't change that, but you can learn from this experience and don't make the same mistakes again.
I agree with your friends, "don't stress it," but you need to do more than get a pregnancy test...........You need to go to the doctor and be throughly tested for STDs. Everyone primarily worries about pregnancy, but that is just one of MANY problems that can arise from unprotected sex! I don't know how old you are, but some places allow you to be tested without a parent present. You have to look out for yourself and keep yourself safe, no one else will do it!! Being tested does not mean that you are a slut or nasty, it just means that you are being responsible about yourself and your health.
I can't tell you if this guy likes you or not, but you said previously that you didn't like him. If you don't like him, why did you have sex with him? I know you said that you were drunk, but you have to put yourself in that situation in the first place. Be careful next time not to set yourself up, even if that means you hurt someone else's feelings!
If he liked you he would be going out of his way to see and talk to you, especially since you have already had sex........no need to be bashful now! He got what he wanted and now he is ready to move on to his next victim, in my opinion.
You mentioned that you felt bad and continued having sex with him so he could finish, WHY? You should NEVER feel pressured to do anything that you DON'T want to do!! It is not your job to make ANY boy FEEL GOOD!!! It didn't make you feel good, did it? From what you said, NO! Don't ever continue anything sexual that you are not comfortable with, even a kiss! If you don't want to or don't like it, STOP IT!!! Who cares what the other party thinks or feels when it comes to your body?!!
Good Luck and God Loves You!!