My boyfriend, Peter, and I have been together almost 2 years now (the longest relationship I have ever been in)

We get on really well and I love him so much!
But Peter always want me to be around him 24/7 its not that I don't want to its just I want some time to myself and if I tell him he gets offended!
Also he never lets me talk to any other lad he gets mad! But I'm not exactly the best apple on the tree so its not as if I'm going to run off!

The part I most hate about our relationship is that Peter can just turn in a blink of an eye!
Like today we were getting on great! But then he flipped had me on the floor sat on me going to spit on my face banging my head against chairs and stuff (not too hard just enough so it hurt) and then he ignored me! I left him alone to clm down for half an hour then went to see him he kep pushing me away and not letting me near him so I thought right I get the picture I'll leave him1 Then he comes downstairs goes on his 360 acts like nothings happened and moans he's hungry... is he mental or is that just men?

Sounds controlling and violent. I don't understand why you would tolerate the spitting/head hitting crap.

There are better men out there.

How can you tolerate all of this that's done to you? Whether he is mental or not, irrespective, physical violence in any form, subtle or harsh, imposes harm to your psychological being as a human as well. Try getting out of it asap so to save yourself any trouble of going mad one day...

He is MENTAL run as fast as you can to get away from him. People like this can do far more damage, it is just a matter of time bfore you are writing this from a hospital bed. Of course he will do a 360, he wants you to stay so he can do it again. Please, please leave now!

Uh yeah... he's mental. Dump that lad! There's no reason for him to get violent

I hope you called the police, but I am sure you didn't.

This is abuse pure and simple. If you don't get away, one of these days he will bang your head on the floor and you won't get up. Not in a few minutes, not in a few hours, NEVER.

Get as far away from him as you possibly can.

If this is what you consider getting on really well, girl you need some help.

Please break it off with him before he hurts you worse, or worse yet, kills you.

This is called abuse and gets much worse the longer you stay. Sorry. Get away you deserve better. Ain't that much love in the world worth taking an azz kicking for.

Wowowowow... it is very healthy that you want your own life.
It is not healthy that he wants to be with you 24/7.

And it is definitely not healthy that he abuses you... nor that you allow him to abuse you.

Get out.
The sooner the better.

This is not love...
It is -as Talinaman said- called abuse.

Never accept it.
Never.

He's mental, this is not love, your insecure of yourself, don't be, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, different guys like different kind of girls, someone will see all your beauty, don't waste your time on someone who won't treat you like the best thing that happened in his life, enjoy your time with friends, family, let love find you, don't hold on to someone only because they say they love you, if he did love you, you would know it by his actions, and it sounds like he doesn't even like himself, he needs to be all dramatic to feel wanted, get rid of him, trust me, three days you'll be feeling a lot better... drama is one thing, hitting you that's just wrong, don't end up on the news like a lot of other people, read the signs... your worth more.

Nah, he's mental all right, real men don't do stuff like this!

Leave him before he does some serious damage! He's not worth it!

Unbelievable that you've endured two years of this. He's violent and controlling... and yes, mental! Please end it immediately for your own safety and sanity.

Sounds like he has anger issues. Bad ones. And the reason why he does not like you being on your own is that he knows exactly how he acts and knows that it is wrong and if you go out with friends they will coahc you to leave him, as we all are on our replys. Lol. So he wants to keep you away from any one that can influence you in a positive way. Does that make sense? Sounds like he may be immature a bit?? Your better off just leaving but make sure you leave on a good note. By the sounds of it, he might get violent if you say your going to leave him. Best wishes to you. Be careful ;)

cαll the αsylum! He might be either mentαl or just plαin stupid,violent,sαdisitic... the list goes on.. run girl! You might not be the best αpple but your no rotten one!