Honestly, I do not believe Marriage is a natural thing in humans. It is caused by society and helps the world function on a whole. As 95% of other animals (look this up) are, we are not meant for one person only. It is in our genetics, our heart and soul to find multiple partners. Women breed, and men spread there seed... just as all of our animal counterparts do in nature. This is ultimately what people feel. Women tend to connect an emotional element to this feeling, while men connect a sexual one. It is hard for people to stay together... just look at the divorce rate.. over 50%.. tell me this isn't a natural feeling you have to deny?. l0l.. Everyone goes through it. It is something you have to starve out of yourself if you would like to grow old with someone and reap the benefits from that type of relationship... that said...
Why are you married at 21? This is what our parents did 50 years ago. You at least need to check the waters before you dive. If it were up to me... it would be LAW that all couples live together for at least 3 years prior to getting married. That way we could cut down on divorces, broken families, and STDs in our country. Our morality seems to have blinded us to the truth of our nature.
Good luck to all.
Truthfully, raised catholic.. but seeing beyond the rules...
J.
