HE says he loves me... yet, he doesn't ever really express affection... and a friend of mine said that he looks like he has lost interest in me... what's really going on? I know he loves having sex, and he says he would be miserable without me, I answered the same thing... but, I don't love him... I lust him... yet care for him... :confused:

He probably lusts you to. Sometimes people confuse lust for love. How long have you been in... lust together?

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Originally Posted by Eazy1123

HE says he loves me...yet, he doesn't ever really express affection...and a friend of mine said that he looks like he has lost interest in me...what's really going on? I know he loves having sex, and he says he would be miserable without me, I answered the same thing...but, I don't love him...I lust him...yet care for him...:confused:

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If he truly loved you, you would feel it and so would he, there would be no questions or questionable actions. For guys, its easy for them to make you feel loved when really they are enjoying the lust. Have a talk with him, before you get hurt.

If you took the element of sex out of the relationship, how long would he stay? How long would you be interested in him? If you two hooked up because of chemistry, which it sounds like, then you need to have the real expectation that this is all there is for you and him.

Hmm, I'm not sure what your trying to ask. Your not making that much sense, but sometimes people get confused in love. Just see how it holds out.