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  • May 6, 2007, 09:08 PM
    mzkaciagurl
    Cps Took My Breastfeeding Baby Away And My 3 Boys, Because I Didn't Take A Second Urine Alysis Test Because I Was Sick I Have Doctor Note But My Social Worker Didn't Care She Said Its And Automatic Positive

    I Never Used Drugs In My Life And My Children Are My Everything, I Have No Money For An Attorney But Need And Want My Babies Back. Please Help Me I Cannot Even Function.

    Pray For Me, Give Me Advice Hellllp Please Someone Anyone??
  • May 7, 2007, 09:15 AM
    startover22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mzkaciagurl
    Cps Took My Breastfeeding Baby Away And My 3 Boys, Because I Didnt Take A Second Urine Alysis Test Because I Was Sick I Have Doctor Note But My Social Worker Didnt Care She Said Its And Automatic Positive

    I Never Used Drugs In My Life And My Children Are My Everything, I Have No Money For An Attorney But Need And Want My Babies Back. Please Help Me I Cannot Even Function.

    Pray For Me, Give Me Advice Hellllp Please Someone Anyone??????????????

    You really need to start your "own" question so people can answer it without stepping on the first posters toes. Lot's of people can give you advice and pray for you if they know you are out there. Start over with your post. Good luck sweety!
  • May 7, 2007, 09:32 AM
    RickJ
    <moderation note: mzkaciagurl, I moved your question to by itself>
  • May 7, 2007, 09:35 AM
    Matt3046
    I will pray for you.
    Could you elaborate on your situation some?
  • May 7, 2007, 09:37 AM
    J_9
    I would like to help, but there are too many missing pieces to this puzzle, such as:

    1) Why were you requested to take a urinalysis?
    2) Why do you have a social worker in the first place?

    Among other questions.

    We would love to answer your question, but we need the whole story to do so.
  • May 7, 2007, 09:43 AM
    Emland
    I agree with J_9, there is not enough info here to even start.
  • May 7, 2007, 10:16 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Yes, there had to be some problem to be at this point, and honestly while I am sorry for you, I hear these things all the time, you had the rules explained to you, you knew you had to go take this test, If you OK to go to the doctor, you could havve showed up at the drug test or even called and found out if you could let your doctor do the test.

    Next did you call your case worker that morning and say I can't come, or did you wait till the next day, the next week, or wait till they came after the kids.

    I would have been there waiting for them to open no matter what if it was my kids involved.

    So while I am sorry for you, I will admit you have to hold the responsibility for not doing what you were told to do.
    But at this point you need to contact social service and see what they say you have to do, and next contact the legal aid society in your area for low cost of free legal advice.
  • May 7, 2007, 10:56 AM
    talaniman
    For whatever reason you must comply with the rules, and if you knew you had a test you should have been there. My experience is that people who skip these test are dirty, and they make a lot of excuses to not take the drug test, I can't say that about you, but as you have found out a doctors note will not change your obligation, and that being said you must make an appointment with your case worker to see what must be done by you to rectify the situation. Since you chose not to elaborate as to your circumstances, its hard to give any specific advice, except to honor the terms that you have been subject to.
  • Jun 19, 2007, 07:10 PM
    JesuslovesHischildren
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mzkaciagurl
    Cps Took My Breastfeeding Baby Away And My 3 Boys, Because I Didnt Take A Second Urine Alysis Test Because I Was Sick I Have Doctor Note But My Social Worker Didnt Care She Said Its And Automatic Positive

    I Never Used Drugs In My Life And My Children Are My Everything, I Have No Money For An Attorney But Need And Want My Babies Back. Please Help Me I Cannot Even Function.

    Pray For Me, Give Me Advice Hellllp Please Someone Anyone??????????????

    The hardest is proving your case. CPS cares what you feel, you are only not qualified to have your child.

    This happens so often in our time. You cannot give up, you must muster up the energy and the strength, and faith to fight them. If they have NO evidence to prove their case their has to be an answer.

    Why didn't the court not give you a lawer? I am not sure about laws their, but in
    Texas the mom has rights. You have to wipe those tears and educate yourself with the knowledge to battle them. No one will come to your rescue you must find the knowledge on your own.

    We are left not without hope or victory.

    So I pray that God will give you the wisdom to battle them and pray for your children to return home, but it will NOt happen without a battle.

    Arm yourself not with anger, sadness, or lack of hope, but arm yourself with the knowledge on the laws. We live in a time when knowledge is just a click away.

    My prayers and e-mail me.

    I am a grandma from TX having to deal with CPS.
  • Jun 19, 2007, 09:48 PM
    shygrneyzs
    If you never took drugs, why was the second UA required? NO money for an attorney, then go to Legal Aid. That is what they are there for - people with no money and need an attorney. Since this was the second UA, you had to know the rules.

    I don't believe much of what you stated. One can read between the lines and it does not read good. You do need help, yes. To get your life clean and straightened out and to prove you deserve those children. So far, the state sees you as unfit. You got work to do.

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