I recently found out that my husband is using cocaine he says not an addiction just occasional use, we have been together for 9+ years and only married almost a year, we have two children one together(he's 7) and one from a previous relationship( she's 12). We have had our ups and downs like other relationships or marriages, but I was furious when I popped a drug test on him and he failed it-- showing cocaine in his system... I had suspected it and had noticed some of the signs & symptoms, but I wasn't going to rest until I knew for sure... now I know and I don't know what to do. I left the house with kids for the weeekend and returned on Sunday, with the understanding that I couldn't make any promises to stay and he promised to not do any more drugs or hang around his friends that did the same thing. We go to church and have been trying to make our relationship work by turning it over to the lord- did I do right by returning and standing by my man-helping him get through this or should I have stayed away and moved on?? help- I care about him a lot, and we have children - any advice is useful.thanks