Hi I'm J tower and I will give you a quick run down on my current situation. My ex asked for a break about a month and a half ago, so I moved out and didn't have contact with her. She became angry and began asking me why I was playing games, I told her I would be straight forward from now on and we would have open lines of communication.
Over the last few weeks we have hung out a few times had fun a lot of fun when we did but she always tells me nothing has changed. I've reverted back to N.C and I don't call her until she calls me, so I don't seem needy.
I can tell lately she is getting stronger and I feel her now slipping away for real now. I am unsure of what to do when she does call, I am thinking about actually not returning her next call for at least a day or 2 after she calls me.
She at first would say were on a break but not seeing other people now she is saying I don't even know what were up to. I am a security blanket and she is having her cake and eating it to.
So my question is what should I do the next time she calls if she does? I do want her back and I have been working on myself and improving my own well being so I'm doing some things right.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated, thank you.