Hay, I'm a 19yr old virgin and I'm in love with one of my best friends. Last year I was introduced this girl and fell head-over heels in love, we started to hang-out a lot and she lives only two minutes walk away so we see each other all the time, two months ago I told her how I feel and she said she didn't feel the same but wanted to stay friends which at first I was fine with, but as we hang-out more my feelings for her keep growing and I can't bare not to be with her, with all the other girls who I know I don't feel comfortable enough with to be intermate with at all, but with her it seems as though it was meant to be, I'm meeting her for a few drinks next weekend and want to tell her that I still feel the same as I did when I first told her but I'm afraid that she may not wona be friends anymore, I couldn't stand us not being close friends and don't know what to do. Is there anyway this can work out between us? Please help, all answers are welcome.

Maybe she fells the your friendship is very important to her and she doesn't want anything to mess it up... Maybe eventually you guys can work things out but right now might not be the right time you should wait and see if she ever gets the same feelings as you and if not then maybe you should just remain friends and hopefully it will all work out for you

Chears, I'm seeing her later this week and seeing if it can go anywhere, if not I'll settle for friendship, she's too good a mate to loss.

Man I hope it work out for you to I'm in love with this girl too she is everything I wish for but she says she enjoys my friendship.even thou she has a boyfriend I just don't know I took her flowers to her crib one time I just took her out three day back to back she said she haven't been out this whole summer... she just went out of town and she said she was going to bring me bak something... man if she don't want to go out with you just get real close with her maybe you are the right dude for her... just go for it I did but I gave it my best... lease she can't say I'm not a good dude... let know haw it goes dude... p.s keep your head up