Why is it that every time I date a guy he always breaks up with me with lame excuses. Like for example because I didn't talk to him. He wanted to keep our relationship a secret from everyone else and then he doesn't even say hi to me. Another example because you deserve someone better. Whatever! I always feel that guys are just using me or at least try to and I always feel ugly when guys treat me like dirt. I need help!!

I really do hear you, honey, but you are just picking the wrong ones or going for the ones that 'appear' to have an interest in you. You have to learn to pick out of that whole big mess of guys. My most important advice is not to appear to needy and they will always come back.