Hi people, I'm 23 yr old man, I never ever had relationship, is kind of embrrasin for me 2 say this but I'm very shy man, because of my shyness I found difficult 2 approach women. I'm good looking guy but I'm very shy and women don't like that kind of men. I get very unconformable around women specially the once I fancy. I'm going to be almost 24 and never touch, kissed or slep wit a girl in my life. That shows you how shy I am. Right now I feel that I need girl in my life because I get lonely. I see sexy girls around every day but I just can't over come my shyness 2 approach them. I feel like I'm going to be single foreve.
So PLEASE HELP



PLEASE HELP!!

THANK YOU

Listen, being shy and that reason for you to have never slept with woman denote nothing wrong about you... Trust me.. it's just your personality trait which you're born with and just the way we hone our voice or communication skills, etiquettes or imbibe other personality traits to sustain ourselves in the society, same way you need to now concentrate on your PR skills with women. It shouldn't be hard at all... try to talk normal with women around, be confident and shed this inferiority about you being shy... if you keep thinking like that, u'll get nowhere... atleast not near women.We women have no inhibitions towards shy men, provided they are confident of themselves... u get my point... now go and make some new female friends to start with... don't jump to relationships at this point...

IT sounds as though you may not be sure of yourself and that you are afraid of rejection. You need to find a way to work on that... not really sure how? Being alone for awhile is not all bad either! Take this time to learn more about yourself... likes and dislikes. Take time and build up yourself worth and overcome your fear of rejection. Be a telemarketer for awhile... they always get rejected and you get used to it! Don't expect women to reject you either. If you approach someone with the attitude "They don't like me" or "They will say no" then that is what you will get.

Be patient! The right person is out there for you. Like you said, women what bad boys, and that is true... unfortunately women are attracted to that demeanor. There is a women out there that is not looking for that and they are looking for YOU! Be patient!

Good Luck and God Loves You!

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Originally Posted by Hassan23

Hi people, im 23 yr old man, i nver ever had relationship, is kinda embrrasin for me 2 say this but im very shy man, because of my shyness i found difficult 2 approach women. im gud lookin guy but im very shy and women dont like that kinda men. i get very unconformable around women specially the once i fancy. im gonna be almost 24 and nver touch, kissed or slep wit a gurl in my life. that shows you how shy i am. right now i feel that i need gurl in my life beacuse i get lonley. i see sexy gurls around every day but i just can't over come my shyness 2 approach them. i feel like im gonna be single foreve.
So PLEASE HELP



PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THANK YOU

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Join meetup.com. My son is shy and is 42 he is very happy with his new friends and getting out and meeting people. It has been a godsend for him. They are in every city, the groups go to movies, out to eat etc.

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Originally Posted by Hassan23

Hi people, im 23 yr old man, i nver ever had relationship, is kinda embrrasin for me 2 say this but im very shy man, because of my shyness i found difficult 2 approach women. im gud lookin guy but im very shy and women dont like that kinda men. i get very unconformable around women specially the once i fancy. im gonna be almost 24 and nver touch, kissed or slep wit a gurl in my life. that shows you how shy i am. right now i feel that i need gurl in my life beacuse i get lonley. i see sexy gurls around every day but i just can't over come my shyness 2 approach them. i feel like im gonna be single foreve.
So PLEASE HELP



PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THANK YOU

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It's not true that women don't like shy men... my husband is very shy and it's fine.
It's normal to be uncomfortable and shy around people you fancy.. understandable.

Find some groups where you can make new friends.

Good luck and don't be afraid of being shy... it's OK, just be you

Being shy is something you have to get over.

YOUR GOING TO BE REJECTED. MANY TIMES.

Not necessarily all in the same day, but it will happen. I found that the more I talked to women the more comfortable I was. What really matters is that if you do get rejected, don't give a sh1t. Not to save face, but mentally you need to understand that women judge you on the things your not paying attention to and probably can't change.

Girls will not like you more if you don't care, but eventually you really won't give a if they talk to you or not. Also keep in mind that the really hot ones don't make the best gf's. Not saying that you should date ugly girls, but really hot girls are b1tches (95% of the time) and usually not the best conversation.

When talking to girls, try to keep track of when the conversation is going down hill. If the conversation slows, dismiss yourself. You'll find that planting a seed in their mind can definitely get you somewhere. Trick is that if you talk to 1000 girls and you are only successful 1% of the time (Very low percentage) you've gotten with 10 girls. YOU CAN DO IT!

JUST TALK TO THEM, ABOUT THEM. AND MAKE THEM LAUGH. Girls like a smartass, but don't be too mean about it, there is a line.

I was with a girl for 4 years, never hit on women in my adult life (22 when we broke up), even moved to another city where I didn't know any girls. I talked to every girl I thought might be interesting, usually only on the weekends. Still took me 3 months to get laid. Trust me bro, you can get over the hump and hopefully get to the hump. ;)

JC

Ahhh I wish someone had told me some of these things right at the beginning... I learnt most of this the hard way, so I really hope its somehow useful to you.

First and foremost do not fear rejection, if a gal rejects you its one less wrong gal on your path to finding someone nice, so in a way it's a positive... and personally I had a LOT of it before things improved and it was because my approach at first was just plain creepy, I'd walk up stand near a gal, sputter a few words then be all quiet again they thought I was a nutter lol ahh the young days eh? Ha

The second thing talk to girls any girl at all, get comfortable talking to women in general, at the supermarket in the line with you or on the bus or at the library wherever you are even if she's not someone you find attractive it doesn't hurt to have a conversation, ask these ladies what they think about the weather or some kind of current news event and really listen to what they have to say, also pay attention to things like their body language i.e. how close they stand to you etc pretty soon you become so comfortable in talking to any woman that you meet that talking to girls you find attractive isn't as much of an issue...

And believe it or not after a few bad encounters with chickies single forever is a dream come true not a nightmare, I'm trying to stay single and for the life of me I know it has a limited time before someone steals my heart away hey..

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Originally Posted by Hassan23

Hi people, im 23 yr old man, i nver ever had relationship, is kinda embrrasin for me 2 say this but im very shy man, because of my shyness i found difficult 2 approach women. im gud lookin guy but im very shy and women dont like that kinda men. i get very unconformable around women specially the once i fancy. im gonna be almost 24 and nver touch, kissed or slep wit a gurl in my life. that shows you how shy i am. right now i feel that i need gurl in my life beacuse i get lonley. i see sexy gurls around every day but i just can't over come my shyness 2 approach them. i feel like im gonna be single foreve.
So PLEASE HELP



PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THANK YOU

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Hey hassan I think you are more than shy. I believe you have social anxiety. I mean you get nerveousness, tingling, short of breath, feeling of you want to scape. When you are aroung girls or crowded places right does that look famailiar. Well I tell you what there is help. There is something call self help programs in the net. So type Google search the words overcome painfull shyness or social anxity. And you will get one of the following: books, self help programs, or medication. I will advice you to chooce the book or the self help program because they will be like a therapy for you. They will ways or techniques to over come your sheyness. And you will feel better. And you will start hitting girls. My e-mail address is [email protected] feel free to contact me for any questions. Thanks bye

Hey.. well nothing's wrong with your situation... I myself am the same... and I'm a girl... well just be patient and I'm sure your special person will eventually come to u. :D

You could try online dating to break the ice.

Plentyoffish.com
Okcupid.com

To name a few.