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Me and my girlfriend split about a week ago. We were getting on so great and it came out the blue really. She said she did not want a relationship at this minute as before them she was with some one for 3 years. We were together just under a year. Everyone said we had the best ever relationship. She said she has to keep busy or else her emotions would build up. She said she wanted space too but don't thing I have gave here that in the last week so I fink its best if I do now and let her miss me? Any advice? Thanks

Will- She definitely was not ready to enter into another long term relationship. I think even if you thought it was out of the blue, it couldn't have been. She just finally found the courage to do what she had to do.

She needs space and time alone. It's probably not you she's dumping, just the person who is keeping her from being an individual and not a couple.

Hang tight. Leave her alone. I know it's hard, but no contact. Let her come to you if and when she's ready.

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Originally Posted by momincali

Will- She definitely was not ready to enter into another long term relationship. I think even if you thought it was out of the blue, it couldn't have been. She just finally found the courage to do what she had to do.

She needs space and time alone. It's probably not you she's dumping, just the person who is keeping her from being an individual and not a couple.

Hang tight. Leave her alone. I know it's hard, but no contact. Let her come to you if and when she's ready.

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This is great advice!

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Originally Posted by momincali

Will- She definitely was not ready to enter into another long term relationship. I think even if you thought it was out of the blue, it couldn't have been. She just finally found the courage to do what she had to do.

She needs space and time alone. It's probably not you she's dumping, just the person who is keeping her from being an individual and not a couple.

Hang tight. Leave her alone. I know it's hard, but no contact. Let her come to you if and when she's ready.

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I couln'd agree more. Give her time if that's all she needs. But make sure she knows she can still talk to you.

Give her what she wants and leave her alone. She will call if she wants to. Try and move on without her, and leave her to settle her own issues.