Online Chatting with another woman
I found out my husband is chatting sexually with a client of ours but he denies it. I have tried to talk to him about it but because he does not think I have proof he tells me it is all in my head. We have been together for 3 years, married just 6 months.
In one of the conversations he said 'its not like I have every seen her picture, talked to her on the phone or chat with her while I am at work. I don't even know where she lives.' Well I found pictures of her on our computer and I found a copy of a chat that occurred while he was at work and of course we have her address because she is client. Which of course now makes me wonder if they are chatting at work on the phone as well.
(phone records are not accessible).
Because he denies everything, I don't know what to do. I am so scared that this is going to turn into a physical affair, although she lives several hours away.
He calls the chat casual when I first brought it up. But I have seen otherwise, which I don't think he realizes.
She refers to him as 'Babe' which really bothers me and I asked him to ask her not to do that but he said that would be rude to tell a client. I disagreed but lost the battle. Now all communication between them is a secret and I am in the dark.
I love my husband with all my heart and can never leave him. I don't know how to cope with this though.:confused: