Hi. Just over a week ago my GF told me that she wants some space for a while. During the last week I have still been texting her so see if she OK etc as I miss her. But I worrying it may be pushing her further away. She said it is but I can't help it. I miss her and want her back so much, I don't no how to act or anything. I've told her how I feel and told her I love her and want her back and she sticks by what she says which is I don't want a relationship at present. She did say " never say never". Please someone help me!

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Originally Posted by willparsons

hi. just over a week ago my GF told me that she wants some space for a while. during the last week i have still been texting her so see if she ok etc as i miss her. but i worrying it may be pushing her further away. she said it is but i can't help it. i miss her and want her back so much, i dont no how to act or anything. iv told her how i feel and told her i love her and want her back and she sticks by what she says which is i dont want a relationship at present. she did say " never say never". please someone help me!!

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You want the truth. Sorry but it is over. You sound desperate and clingy and believe me it is pushing her farther but for some reason you continue the behaviour that does not make any sense to me. How long have you been together? How old are you? You told her how you feel and now it is time to leave her alone. Simple really. No more contact. Stop the begging and pleading and so forth.

Oh, never say never. Well that might be true but for now it is over. So I think you need to realise that and continue on your life without her.

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Originally Posted by willparsons

she sticks by what she says which is i dont want a relationship at present.

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I'll translate: I don't want a relationship at present with you.

She's trying to end it without hurting you. Rather than continue to cause yourself grief and pain, accept that she does not want to date you anymore and move on.

You must have wanted to spend too much time with her and now she has had enough of you. If yousee a girl to often they get sick of you and don't miss you then they come up with all weird excuses which is totally full of and really they are just saying I'm not into you now and I would be happier and more excited with someone else.

Aww that's sooo sweet. Well how long have you been together because sometimes girls get sick of seeing the same person everyday. Trust me I know I am a girl. Maybe what she is saying is true. Maybe she just wants to be alone. Or maybe something bad happened in her family and this is the way she is dealing with it. I hope that helps


Courtney

But the sad thing is that she is trying to end it w/o hurting you because maybe she still oves you but I guess not that way and she still cares about how you feel

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Originally Posted by lilkittenx2

But the sad thing is that she is trying to end it w/o hurting you because maybe she still oves you but i guess not that way and she still cares about how u feel

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Thanku. If I leave her alone and give her space do u think there could still b a chance?xx

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Originally Posted by willparsons

thanku. if i leave her alone and give her space do u think there could still b a chance?xx

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No one knows the answer to that but if you don't leave her alone and give her space I can tell you there won't be a chance.

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Originally Posted by sypher373

No one knows the answer to that but if you dont leave her alone and give her space I can tell you there wont be a chance.

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Sypher is absolutely correct, so give her what she asked for, and get a life that makes you happy without her, and leave her absolutely alone to deal with her own issues. NO CONTACT whatsoever. Sorry