I am 23 years old and I am married for about 3 years in the process of getting a divorce and there is guy I really like and I have went on a couple dates with him and I feel so bad about it because I am still married and we have not been separated for that long and I was with my husband since I was 16 and I feel like I haved to be with him but he is verbally abusive and physically abusive somethins and we have both cheated on each other and we have been through so much it is just crazy I need to know if it is OK what I am doing or if I should try again to make it work with my husband?? :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by kgalindo

he is verbally abusive and physically abusive somethins

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That's the important part right there. Go through with the divorce, and never see that guy again.

You might want to wait until the divorce is final to do much dating, because divorce attorneys can have fun with that sort of thing when it's time to talk dividing assets.