My ex had sex with a man when she was a minor
My ex who is 18 now lost her virginity a then 27 year old when she was 16, this being northern ireland she was just a minor.
No one knows about this apart from me and a few of her friends. I want him to pay for what he did as I see it being sexual abuse.
Do I have any right in reporting it to someone, even her parents, she said it took two to tango but I just can't accept that. She has begged me not too and t be honest I'm trying to get her back so this would actually lessin my chances of that.
EDIT: WHEN I SAY GET HER BACK I Don't MEAN REVENGE, I MEAN GET HER BACK INTO MY LIFE.
The problem is that he is a free presbyterian and acts like he is saved, he certainly isn't anymore as this happened not so long ago. Everyone seems to think he is a nice guy but I don't want to be seen as the bad guy if I do report him. My ex begged me not too when I first heard about it.
I feel that if I did report him, even to her parents then I would completely lose her altogether, its tearing me apart inside but by keeping quiet I still have some hope that she will come back.
Your advice would be very helpful.
Thank you