I love my husband very much but I'm kind of in a sticky part in my life I ran into one of my ex's a couple of months ago and we talk all the time now and my feeling for him have been strong for a long time and my husband I love to it just that he makes me very anger because he at an age right now where he should be making good money and have a house by now but he doesn't and he calls into work on the time what do I do I need help

Who cares weather he has a house or money love is not judged by these principals, you were born into this world with nothing and no matter how much you end up with you will be going the same way as every other person on this planet in a BOX!!

I can't believe you would even mention this love is something shared between two people no matter what they make or do if you feel it in your heart you k ow what to do.

I do not know why you are talking to the ex maybe it is because you have not seen him for a longtime and maybe you are thinking not with your head.

Thus is what you need to do!! You need to go for a walk down to the park on your own with no one around maybe when your husband is out. Sit there on your own and imagine your husbend was no longer in your life and see what you feel. If you feel OK then maybe you are leaning towards the ex!!

Its an amazing thing LOSS!! Not until you sit and realise you have lost someone is when you wake up... can't stand women like you, your husband is probably agreat guy... The ex is an ex for what reason if you could can you please let me know why you two broke up who didthe breaking and what for? Thanks Then I may be able to look more into the situation...

iloveyou101,

Beware! There is a saying that the other man's grass is always greener - But it's just as hard to cut!

The ex knows you are married and yet he is hanging around and no doubt flirting with you - it's fun and it's flattering, but it would last. He has no respect for you, your husband or your marital state.

Go home and take care of your man. Give first take later. Show him just how much you love him. Sometimes that's all it takes to give our guys the incentive to work at building a better life for themselves and their family.

Do you have children? Think how devastated they would be if you were to take this friendship any further.