I have been dating this guy off and on for about three years. When we first met things were perfect, I never had a guy to make me feel the way he does. At times he treats me like I am an animal, for instance sometimes when we have sex afterwards he sends me home. He acts like my feeling don't exist. Other times he treats me like I am a queen, he waits on me hand and foot. I know that he is a very blunt person, and he has a history of treating girls really bad, but I love him so much its like he can do nothing to make me stop loving him. I don't know if maybe he treats me cold because he is not looking for a relationship. I have also did my share of bad thins to him to, but this thing that we have is 3 years strong. I have been with him through his relationships,and he has been with me through my relationships. No matter what we always find our way back to each other. So if you are reading this let me know should I try to erase him from my head and my heart, or should I try to pursue what we have.. I feel like I am cursed.

Feeling like your cursed is definitely not what a relationship is about.

Maybe taking some space to yourself will help you to realize what you really want. By remaining in the middle of things, you will never see the whole picture clearly enough.

It seems to me there is a lot against you. He has a reputation of treating girls badly, he sometimes "treats you like an animal", etc. It really doesn't matter how often he does these things, the fact that he does them at all is unfair to you, and to be honest, not love at all.

After you have sex he sends you home? Hmm, sounds to like like you're just a little too convenient for him. He's only nice to you when HE feels like it. Play hard to get, don't have sex with him every time he snaps his fingers and his actions will answer this question for you.

I agree with the other users. He's bound to hurt you if he sends you home right after sex. But you can play hard to get (thats always fun :)) Do want you truly feel is going to help you out with this relationship.

Just don't let him put you on a leash. And if you're feeling like you're cursed, that's not the way a heathly relationship should feel.

Best of luck to you!