Whenever my family does something I always get left out. It is like I am just there. I feel invisible. They accept my cousin's girfriend more than they accept me. They always tell me that I am heavy... I still haven't lose the baby weight. I am trying though. They also treat me like a child. I have tried to tell them how I am feeling but they don't care. What would you guys do in my situation?:confused:

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Originally Posted by robertsqueen

Whenever my family does somthing I always get left out. It is like I am just there. I feel invisible. They accept my cousin's girfriend more than they accept me. They always tell me that I am heavy....I still haven't lose the baby weight. I am trying though. They also treat me like a child. I have tried to tell them how I am feeling but they don't care. What would you guys do in my situation?:confused:

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The family thing again. Oh, I think you already know my answer. I gave this answer several times before with other situations with the family.

First of all. That is emotional abuse. Telling you that your heavy and other comments. True loving family would except you no matter what.

It does not matter how they treat you, what is important is your focus on your own little family. How you love them and they love you back. Nothing else is important.

I know you always want to feel excepted my wife is the same way, but there is a time where you have to let go of what you think other people think of you and let that hurt go and live your own life without any concern for them. Only for your own family and yourself.

Joe