Hi I've previously posted my 3 1/2 year relationship on here and now I realise well, in life you must be busy doing your own things you can't just sit around and see the girlfriend no matter how long yourve been together, I didn't have my own life well I did for a majority of the time and we had the best relationship. But then once I gave some things up I was out. Ive been broken up for 7 weeks and I am still depressed and trying to come to turns with the soft wussie I turned into wanting to see her all the time. I was never like that before always out going and the fun guy and then bang turned into the needy guy wanting to always have her over for dinner, how depressing not doing my own things not having fun ion life and now I'm left here allon my own friends have basicsally moved on in relationships and I'm left alone. Was going so well had the best relationship out of all my friennds enjoyed my life and then bang she said I'm not always happy. Mind you saw her each day had no life of my own, Its hard to handle but one day she's nissing you heaps the next your out...

Yeah well sh*T happens ;P Key is to not make anyone your life, they are just part of it. Never give 100% of yourself away, maintain the mystery, the spontaneous, don't get into a rut, don't be so available, say no once in a while and get other things to keep you busy!