Ok so my brother's best friend asked me out and I said yes. I have the best time hanging out with him, and he's super nice. My brother isn't really okay with us though. I don't want to ruin my relationship with my brother, or my brother's with his best friend, but I really like this guy. What should I do?

I think your brother should get a life and you not to worry about it and just enjoy yourself if you really like this guy.

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Originally Posted by tickle

I think your brother should get a life and you not to worry about it and just enjoy yourself if you really like this guy.

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Tickle, said it best. Your brother needs to get a life. Do not worry about your brother. Just be natural and go with the flow. You like somebody you should not let family ruin that. Even if they think they are doing it for your best interests. You need to do things and experience and learn about things on your own.

Joe

I agree with you guys, but how do I convince my brother of this? I know things are already awkward between them, and his best friend is now spending more time with me than with him. Any more advice would be appreciated! Thanks

Talk with your brother about it. Ask him if there's a reason he doesn't want you with him (like his history with girls). If his concern is not about you but about him, I say let him get over it on his own. He should be ahppy for you if he knows his best friend is a good guy.

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Originally Posted by s47hbk

I agree with you guys, but how do I convince my brother of this? I know things are already awkward between them, and his best friend is now spending more time with me than with him. Any more advice would be appreciated! Thanks

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Do not convince your brother of anything. You do not need to answer to your brother.

Thank you everyone for your help. I've decided that I'm going to make this work however I can, because this guy truly is one of a kind.

I am in a similar situation and say follow your heart. Our brother's will love us no matter what.