IM 17 and I've had a best friend Anna since grade 2. Im a girl too. So when we were around 13 or so we wanted to see what it would be like to finger, so I did it to her. We found it odd and laughed through it. Another time I told her and I really thought so, that I wanted her to show me how to kiss french. She did. I don't recall feeling aroused by either experience at all.
SO now I had sex with my boyfriend and its been 5 months since the first time but still no orgasm/climax for me. I'm beginning to worry whether it means I might be lesbian?
Or is this natural and common for teen girls?
Please anybody..

What you have gone through is very common among teens and you need to talk with your boyfriend about sex. Many guys don't know how to satisfy a girl, that's why it is so important to have open communication in relashionships. Don't be afraid to try something new, you never know you might enjoy it.

If you were not aroused with your girlfriend and found it odd, then your not a lesbian.

Its common and natural -- fear not , many teen experiment sexually. --- Savage

Yes what you are doing is normal for your age and experience, And if you read some of the posts here you will see women in their 20's and 30's not having organisms at time, it can method, lack of foreplay or many factors

Normallly it takes being with the right partner for some period, talking to them as to what you like or want, what feels good and what does not.

With that said, at 17 you don't need to be having sex anyway, but if you do, make sure you use protection

How old where u at time of fingering if young you might not have feelings in that sense