Hi I have not spoken to my girlfriend for three weeks and I was in no contact after bggibg her for a month and sleeping with her on one occasion so I thought I might still be in!! Anyway guess I wasn't! Went no contact an haven't spoke for 3 weeks I was thinking of calling tomorrow night and asking her out the next night. Not sure what I should say, should I just ask how she's been should I just say what you doing tomorrow night??

I was with her 3 1/2 years and she was so keen she doesn't have anyone says she doesn't want anyone at the moment. I thought I would just try to make contact and see how things go its so hard yet it used to be so easy I would just ring up and tell her what's going on and that was it, now it seems so hard?? Any ideas how to approach this situation??

If I were you I would keep the no contact and find something else to do. Can't wait for her call can you? Then stop waiting, and work on your life without her.