I have a problem which has I've repeated all my life.
I just split from a girl after 4 years. The relationship was very volatile, passionate, but ultimately , unhealthy and going nowhere. But we both love each other.
After ending it, and making that descison, I have massive regret, now wanting her back. I know I have to ignore these feelings, and move on.
I have done all this before with another, and now I'm worried, as it's a repeating cycle. Any thoughts?