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  • Apr 27, 2007, 06:40 PM
    alecia_wiles
    Ex hangs out with me does he want me back?
    My boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me a month ago but I still want to be with him. I love him so much but he won't tell me anything. I asked him if we were going to get back together and he says I don't know. When we hang out together we always end up going all the way. Most people are confused by him. To me it seems like we are going out one minute because he will be kissing me and the next its like we're not. I don't know what to do. Please help!
  • Apr 27, 2007, 07:33 PM
    Stunning07
    Your too convienent for him inorder to make him relise you have to play hard to get, don't be clingy w/ him you guys are BROKEN UP, so don't mess around with him don't reply to him every time he calls, text, emails you, you got to start to act like your happy w/out him that's the only way you'll make him see.. sure he likes you... but not enough to be with you because your basically giving him whatever he wants w/out a commitment
  • Apr 27, 2007, 07:45 PM
    brazygirl08
    Exactly stunning... listen to us! Don't go all the way with him. Tease him some even :) Just show him that he does want to be with you and that you will only go all the way if you are together! Otherwise he could just be using you :(
  • Apr 27, 2007, 10:06 PM
    talaniman
    Why should he want you back, since he has all he wants now. Sorry, but you've made yourself way to available for him. Cut off all contact and leave him alone because he can never respect you, since you've allowed him to use you.
  • Apr 27, 2007, 10:15 PM
    LuvMyMaltipoo
    When you put yourself out there like that, he's going to take it and do whatever he wants because he knows he can. Cut him off, play hard to get.. make him chase you.
  • Apr 28, 2007, 08:00 AM
    sypher373
    On top of the people saying "dont go all the way", I would personally suggest that any kissing or physical contact of the type should probably stop. You two are not going out, and any actions like this are simply going to confuse you (as they already have).

    I could understand friendly hugs, but why on earth would he break up with you and then want to kiss you and "go all the way". No offense, sounds like he using you.

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