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Sexual noises

Ok this is funny!

We are friends with this couple, both very sweet. A while we went to visit them (they live like 200 miles away ) so don't see them very often and when we do we stay over the for the night.
Anyway.. when we were over there's a while back, we heard them having sex... Well we heard her yelling with pleasure.. we laughed :p

My question is :- they are coming to us in a few weeks for a night or 2...
I'm laughing just thinking of it...
If we hear her.. should I say something as I'm the lady of the house?
Coz she is LOUD...

Well this is funny and interesting!
I assume you didn't say anything to her as you heard her in her house...
Now if you hear her when she is staying over at yours, you can say something in a smart / subtle / joky / friendly manner I guess!

Can't think of anything right now, however if anything pop to mind ill surely let you know!

Oh my I do sympathise with this one we have lovely neighbours but blimey are they noisey it sounds like walruss mating lol we were talking the other afternoon about me moving millie into the larger room at the back of the house witch is next to there room and she says oh god I'm going to have to go back to having quieter sex I just laughed and said and no blazing rows in bed either giggle her children and constantly telling them they are revolting and should leave the sex to the younger generation giggle can you imagine.
Just make a joke out of maybe someone else you had stay that was as noisey as hell giggle they might get the message.

WOW your neighbours have loud noisey sex with kids in the house?? LOL

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Originally Posted by flower81

Ok this is funny!

We are friends with this couple, both very sweet. A while we went to visit them (they live like 200 miles away ) so dont see them very often and when we do we stay over the for the night.
Anyways.. when we were over there's a while back, we heard them having sex... Well we heard her yelling with pleasure.. we laughed :p

My question is :- they are comin to us in a few wks for a night or 2....
im laughin just thinkin of it...
If we hear her.. should i say somethin as im the lady of the house?!
Coz she is LOUD....

If I had a problem with someone, I would try to put myself in their situation and think how I would feel if I were them and this was mentioned to me and then I would think, if this were me, how would I like to be told, sometimes there are no kind way of saying things. Maybe just refer to how thin your walls are because you can hear your neighbours talking lol, if they cared that should make them think, if they don't care then you must ask for respect Take care, love and peace anne x

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Originally Posted by Krs

WOW your neighbours have loud noisey sex with kids in the house??! LOL

There 12 and 16 and they certainly voice there disapproval

I don't know about this one but I know I am also noisey when I make love with my hubby, but when ever we have stayed at other people's homes we try not to have sex, but if we end of doing it, we are very quite. (it's hard)
Let's just hope your friends think like that. They might of just felt comfortable being in their house but it's different when you are a guest at somebody else's home.
Good Luck and let us know how the Noises GO! LOL :)

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Originally Posted by iscorpio

...Maybe just refer to how thin your walls are cos you can hear your neighbours talking lol, if they cared that should make them think, if they don't care then you must ask for respect Take care, love and peace anne x

this is a nice way to passively address the issue.

of course, then there are those who WANT others to know they are having sex... like the imfamous, amourous couple that threw open their hotel blinds facing the ballpark and happily wound up on the jumbotron briefly... you just never know.. they might crank it up a notch if they know others can hear. =)

but a nice approach... saying something like "let me know if the TV bothers you at night. The walls are a little thin here... or something...