Hi, well I meet someone in internet, of course he says he will come to my country and he will stay like 2 or 3 years, I truly find suspicious, and something tells me that he is been not sincere, I don't know if it is only that I am paranoid, at least some things I know he is telling me the truth but there are another that makes me doubt. What do you think? any suggestion or advice? Please help me.

Think of what? Is he asking for money?

Please elaborate.

Your instinct are correct as they prevent you from trusting a total stranger sight unseen. Always protect yourself. Trust those instincts.

Well 2 or 3 years is not much of a commitment, if they actually ever came, it sounds like they are looking for citizenship at best.

Most of course most merely want you to send money for this passport, or that visa and then keep milking you for money and never come

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Originally Posted by heizel_dbest

Hi, well I meet someone in internet, of course he says he will come to my country and he will stay like 2 or 3 years, I truly find suspicious, and something tells me that he is been not sincere, I dont know if it is only that I am paranoid, at least some things I know he is telling me the truth but there are another that makes me doubt. What do you think?, any suggestion or advice?. Please help me.

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A lot of people on the internet live in a fantasy world, lots of people say things that they wish could happen, some people pretend to be the complete opposite of what they are, is amazing how people change their age lol things on the net are to be taken lightly unless you are in to a really heavy relationship, if you get really close to someone, you can feel their energies as you speak, you can feel their expression in their voice as they write, you can feel their sadness, pain and happiness, you share all sorts of emotions, words come naturally, if you doubt someone then it is for a reason, be careful, there are lots of scams out there, I have been caught up in two am wise now lol, good luck, if in doubt then listen to your fears. Take care, love and peace anne x

Trust Your Instincts!!

You really need to be careful with the internet. After a bad breakup I met a guy named Kevin and he promised me the world. Then it turned out he was married with children. Not only that I am reading a book about a guy that woud meet weman on the internet then lure them to him. He would then kill them. The internet is not the safest place to meet a guy. I don't think that this guy is sincere and is just looking to use you. You should probably stop having contact with him before you get hurt.