What does this mean ladies?
I need some help from you ladies and maybe even guys if you have an opinion. I'm 28, she's 26.
My ex-girlfriend and I have been broken up for about five months now, we've have talked about getting back together, or at least I have expressed this interest to her. She has replied with, " I just want to be single for a while and get my career going and finish school, after that we'll see what happens".She is very busy finishing school and works full time. To my knowledge she is not dating anyone else. I give her a ton of space and we only talk about twice a week and I let her initiate all contact. When we talk its because she calls me usually. Here is my question, whenever she calls, she'll talk a little bit then whenever I start to talk, she'll start talking to someone in the background or say hold on a minute and start talking to someone who is with her. She cuts me off all the time in the middle of me talking. She never used to do this when we were together! To make it worse, she'll cut me off in the middle of a story and say, Can I call you back later tonight"? Then she won't even call back for like 4 days. I just think its very rude to do that. I've told her that and she gets really pissed and defensive saying, "I get busy, we're not together anymore". To me it has nothing has to do with being together, it's common curtesy. When you say you'll call back later that same day, you don't call 4 days later. It's like just because we are broken up she no longer owes me common curtesy. This really pisses me off. My main question is why would she do this to me? Its so rude. I feel like she just calls me to screw with me and purposely piss me off. Why else would she call, tell me how she has been, and then when I start to talk basically just say, " I got to go, call you later," to which she doesn't. Oh, let me mention that I broke up with her so maybe this is revenge?? What do you guys think she is doing this dismisive behavior for?? Thank you for your help!