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  • Apr 24, 2007, 05:03 PM
    jojo114
    A rumor gone too far
    OK what would you do if you were in grade 8 and their was this rumor about you going around that you stuff your braw. But you really don't your boobs are real its not my fault if people think they are too big for my age what am I supposed to do cut them off hell no. anyway since grade six I had this rumor saying that I pad my braw and it keeps coming back. Like before their was this guy teasing me that I do stuff and like calling me fake tits so I flashed him he was happy for a week but then started again calling me that and I hate it. And like when I went to the park with my friend this guy saw me at school and asked my friend if I had real tits of course my friend knew they were real so she said you and this guy still doesn't believe her or me I am like to him what you thing I got implants I am too young for that eww. And he went to tell all these older guys that if they irritate me by saying my tits are fake that I would flash them but that's not the kind of reputattion I want to have. Especially when I go to the senior side. Anyway have some advice please help me.
  • Apr 24, 2007, 05:12 PM
    TheSavage
    Just smile at them -- and say -- your such a sh*thead you will never know, and just walk away feeling proud with head held high.

    Flashing one of them was the worst thing you could have done to earn respect from the fools. -- And face it some of us guys are boobie crazy. -- Savage
  • Apr 24, 2007, 05:18 PM
    krittengirl
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by jojo114
    ok what would you do if you were in grade 8 and their was this rumor about you going around that you stuff your braw. but you really dont your boobs are real its not my fault if people think they are too big for my age what am i supposed to do cut them off hell no. anyways since grade six i had this rumor saying that i pad my braw and it keeps coming back. like before their was this guy teasing me that i do stuff and like calling me fake tits so i flashed him he was happy for a week but then started again calling me that and i hate it. and like when i went to the park with my freind this guy saw me at school and asked my freind if i had real tits of course my freind knew they were real so she said ya and this guy still doesnt believe her or me iam like to him what you thing i got implants iam too young for that eww. and he went to tell all these older guys that if they irritate me by saying my tits are fake that i would flash them but thats not the kind of reputattion i wanna have. espesially when i go to the senior side. anyways have some advice please help me.
    If someone says something that disrespectful to you, call them on it. Next time instead of flashing them or the like why don't you tell them that you have better things to do than to worry about what they think. Tell them that you're sorry they don't have anything better to do than to think about your chest. The key is not to let the teaser know that they are bothering you. they will quickly grow bored with it if they don't get much of a reaction from you.
    Now if you are uncomfortable with the size of your chest, you can look for a minimizer bra. It makes you appear smaller than you are (kind of the anti push up bra I guess) Have your mom or another adult go with you or ask the salesclerk in a department store lingerie department to help. They are usually trained to help with getting the correct fit you want.
  • Jun 16, 2007, 12:16 AM
    TWM420
    Just ignore what they say be proud of what you have.
  • Jun 16, 2007, 05:30 PM
    SexYPauL
    Coming from a boys perspective, just ignore them as others have said, or tell them that they're just jealous because of never going to feel them, something to make them stutter. :)
  • Jun 17, 2007, 09:02 PM
    rockstar567
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by jojo114
    ok what would you do if you were in grade 8 and their was this rumor about you going around that you stuff your braw. but you really dont your boobs are real its not my fault if people think they are too big for my age what am i supposed to do cut them off hell no. anyways since grade six i had this rumor saying that i pad my braw and it keeps coming back. like before their was this guy teasing me that i do stuff and like calling me fake tits so i flashed him he was happy for a week but then started again calling me that and i hate it. and like when i went to the park with my freind this guy saw me at school and asked my freind if i had real tits of course my freind knew they were real so she said ya and this guy still doesnt believe her or me iam like to him what you thing i got implants iam too young for that eww. and he went to tell all these older guys that if they irritate me by saying my tits are fake that i would flash them but thats not the kind of reputattion i wanna have. espesially when i go to the senior side. anyways have some advice please help me.
    tell them to back off. i have pretty big tits for my age & nothing goes around the school. this girl in my school people say she stuffs her bra with tissue so it makes hers look bigger. not sure if that is true. but all u have 2 do is ignore them if they say anything just dont liste 2 them. if u dont answer them back they will stop bothering u
  • Jun 17, 2007, 10:14 PM
    Ging1994
    I'm a little inipropriate with myself but I'd probably flash them say what do you got on me now but the more appropriate thing to do is danie it
  • Jun 17, 2007, 11:04 PM
    Rockabilly1955mama
    Don't flash them.

    Ignore them. They will grow bored knowing that you don't care what they think.
    Hold your head up high. Don't let silly, fake rumors get to you.

    Hope this helped!
  • Jun 17, 2007, 11:37 PM
    ShaunG
    I would suggest to stop worry about your "tits" as you call them and start working on your education like spelling and so forth...
  • Jun 27, 2007, 03:22 PM
    slikmix2000
    to me it sounds like they all know its real, and now they are only teasing u to get u to flash them like you did with the other guy. All you should do is ignore them, say 'whatever, don't believe me I don't care' and walk away with your head up high. See if that works and if the rumors get worse or persist then say something to shock them and shut their big mouths, be proud of what u got, a lot of girls want to have big tits, and a lot of girls complain their tits are too small. One time a guy said I stuff my bra and I said 'here feel' and he did, then suddenly all guys started saying there fake so I would let them touch it, I never did but guys I knew just started grabing my tits, until one day the guy who grabed me scared me so much that I kicked him in the crotch and screamed 'u dumbass don't ever touch me again none of you'. They all still tried to, but all I did was smack them or punch them and it didn't work. When I ingnored them and the next time one of them commented on them I grabbed my tits looked at his crotch and said 'oh don't be mad that u don't have anything as big as these' and laughed in a mocking way as I walked away with my friends. I didn't have to say what I did but after that the guys stopped, now we joke about it in a funny manner but it never gets to the point of me feeling bad for what I've got, again.

    good luck
    slikmix

    P.S Hope It All Works Out! ^.^

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