Hey all! Question for you guys, here's the situation, I'll try to keep it short:

My girlfriend maybe a couple months ago made me think that she wasn't honest with me, I didn't want to pick on her with my own insecurities, so I left it alone, never even mentioned it to her. It was because I asked her if she had fun one night after she was hanging out with friends. She replied "yes I had fun, yea I was so tired last night I'm glad I got a lot of work done" To me that speech pattern and what she said made no sense about anything, so it seemed that it was some sort of lie to cover up what she really did that night. But as I said I didn't say anything about that and left it alone.

Recently I just get the feeling that she talks to (possibly more) other guys. She still logs on to the dating site that I met her on. She has been there at least 3 times a week for the last couple months. Actually I hacked into her account to see if she was talking to anyone, she hadn't sent any messeges to anyone, but she did send winks, and there is an option to choose if you think you'd match well with someone, her and a couple guys have clicked that to each other. I got suspicious because why would she keep going on that site, we have been together for 7 months now. So today I created a fake profile, pretending to be someone else. Now she lists her contact info if you want to chat with her, so it was easy to start chatting with her as this other guy.

So far she has revealed to me that she doesn't have a boyfriend, and is "fishing" around, since she's "just got out of a 7 year relationship". She went into detail to me about what kind of guy she likes etc. So as you can imagine I am pissed off.

My question: Is she cheating on me already? Should I break up with her? Tell her that I caught her? Or maybe keep up with the fake profile to get more proof? How do you all think I should deal with this issue? I appreciate all of your help in other posts, and I respect you guys opinions

I have a really good answer on this one, because I had a boyfriend of 4 1/2 years that did the same thing to me. I never hacked into his account but I did create a fake profile and started talking to him. He set up a time to even meet me (her)! My advice to you is dump her! Move on, she is not setting an example of someone who knows how to be faithful. I dumped him and have been extremely happy since. Heck if it were me its not even worth giving her an explanation. Just tell her its not there for you anymore and you don't want to see her anymore. Cause you know she is going to give you every excuse she can and it will spark a conversation that you really shouldn't waste your time on anyway! Hope this helps. Let us know what happens.

I am in agreement with you, it just hurts so much that the person that swore that they are honest in fact hates lyers etc, is the one doing the dirt! This always happens in relationships

Any other advice? Thanks so far

Any other advice?

I know it hurts, trust me I lived it. Just end it now before you get hurt even more! You will be glad you did sweety!

She's playing you... dump her