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My father beets on me and my sisers but and I don't know what to do abaut it because He is all we have and if we get taken away I'm afraid me and my sisters will be split up and that's the last thing I want to happen:( :confused: :( :mad: :confused: :(
Last night we got in a bigg fight cause I couldn't watch him beat my sister like that.I just couldn't watch it anymore. I'm tired of making exuses for bruses. I just want to feel safe and I want to know my sisters are safe.
Call and talk to these people, you don't have to tell them who you are
1-877-237-0004 national child abuse hotline
You need to be safe in your home, also talk to a teacher, minister or school counselor if you need to talk to someone for perosnal advice.
Don't wait... you need help immediately. No matter what happens, it will be better than what will eventually happen in your home. Talk to someone that you feel you can trust, talk to your favorite teacher at school, she will help you out, I promise.
Mate you need to seek help and FR_Chuck is right you cnnt wait I had similar problems as a kid with my da but in the end he will ruin your childhood and your life so act upon it now n nomatter what happens you always av you siter (Y) hope av helped x :)
All of the advice you have been given here is very good. Listen to what they are saying. The bonds you have with your siblings will not be broken. You have been surviving in a hell together, and you will all be even closer for that. My husband grew up in the same situation as yourself, eccept no one knew that his father was also molesting his twin sisters, as well as beating all the kids. They all listened to the cries of their mother being beaten or worse. My husband has been out of that situation for over 10 years now, and still wants to kill his father sometimes. He has no contact with him, and only wishes he had gotten himself, his mother, and his siblings out of that house! Don't live to regret this! Get help, talk to the people you have been advised to talk to. Blessings! Protect your family, and get help. Don't wait one more day.
I feel that the best thing you can do for yourself and your sisters is let someone know because you wouldn't want your sisters that you care for and love getting hurt more and more each day.. you wouldn't want your sisters dying from being abused because it can happen. I know it may be hard for you guys to spilt up because your afriad to leave them but you have to ask yourself would you rather have your sisters being abused and hurting them or would you rather have you sisters and yourself in a home that is safe knowing that they aren't being hurt?? I think you should tell someone as soon as possible.. it is very important
You need help! Tell somebody you trust now! Trust me you will feel a lot safer away from him.
Oh my goodness, not doing anything is the worst you can do. I'm begging you to get help. I've helped a lot of people with this. You can't continue to take the abuse. You need to tell so you can have someone treat you like a human. Tell a teacher, police officer, adult, anyone who will listen. If this really happens, you NEED to get help for you and your family.
Oh my gosh you need to get HELP if you don't then it will just get worse and worseQuote:
Originally Posted by Mike_Mike
Tell some one trust me they can help if you tell someone then you might have to go to court and tell the judge that you need to be with your sister that's the only thing that will help
I know what you are going through, because I went through the same thing with my dad. You have to listen to me, parents who touch their children in anyway than besides to love, have serious mental issues. I know what its like to have to witness your innocent sisters be beat on. It's the worst feeling. Its not fair that you have to deal with that, and I respect you for being so strong. If you contact a social worker, they will take you and your sisters away from your dad, but Im sure they will make sure you stay together, being as you have suffered enough already. The last thing you need is to be separated. Please listen. Thank you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mike_Mike
I know what you are going through I will give you and your sisters a happy home if court approves you'll never be separated and you will be safe here in Louisiana let someone know and contact me
Won't u just go to court and have 1 of your trustworthy family members take custody of you or 1 of your friends parents or something because u shouldn't stay somewhere where you are getting abused and if u really want u and your sisters safe then u would ask for custody from someone else.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mike_Mike
Sometimes foster care is no better than life at home and yes you most likely will be split up. Can you go to another family member for help seems like dad is very overwhelmed, better for him to get help than break your family up. Don't get lost in the system. See if you can video tape the abuse than on day show it to him it will hurt him to see how he looks hurting a child. I wish I can help you as a former foster child and as a former foster parent Im telling you the systems sucks and they care only till you get placed and than you are considered damaged goods for the rest of your life than when you have your own kids and somehow someway someone calls cps on you you will most likely loose cause being a child victim makes them beilieve you most like grew up to abuse. I t most likely won't be true but they won't believe you. There is long term sufferings for abusing a child for the parent the child and his/her children you arestuck between a rock and a hard place. Life is lonely in the system and if you tell than you go to an abusive home they could lie and make you look crazy, most foster parents won't take kids that make allegations anyway. I wish you luck, Pray and ask God to keep you safe what ever you deciede to do. I will pray for you to.
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