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  • Apr 23, 2007, 05:37 PM
    lisa88
    Worried 18 year old female
    Just over a month ago me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex three times, in the last week I have been feeling very different, sore breasts, tierd, emotional, sore back, head aches, and very hungry but haven't been able to eat mainly at night. I brought two hpt both were negative so I thought I might not be pregnant but my period is 3 weeks late, because we had to negative hpt tests I thought I wasn't pregnant... last week when we had unprotected sex again I took the morn after pill two days after and have started to bleed, does this mean that I am not pregnant because I'm bleeding, its really weird because I really feel like I'm pregnant.. any one got any advice or information, would be really great..
  • Apr 23, 2007, 05:42 PM
    J_9
    You very well could be pregnant. Remember that sex = babies

    It is imperative at this point in time that you make an appointment for a blood test. HPTs are notorious for false negatives.
  • Apr 23, 2007, 05:45 PM
    lisa88
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9
    You very well could be pregnant. Remember that sex = babies

    It is imperative at this point in time that you make an appointment for a blood test. HPTs are notorious for false negatives.

    So even though I am bleeding I could be pregnant? Am I bleeding because of the pill.
  • Apr 23, 2007, 05:51 PM
    J_9
    If you got pregnant last month by having unprotected sex, then the morning after pill does not work. It works best when used within 24 hours of unprotected sex.

    There is no way to tell exactly what is going on without a physical exam. Some women, although not as common as many think, do bleed in the early months of pregnancy.

    Please make a doctor's appointment.
  • Apr 23, 2007, 05:54 PM
    lisa88
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9
    If you got pregnant last month by having unprotected sex, then the morning after pill does not work. It works best when used within 24 hours of unprotected sex.

    There is no way to tell exactly what is going on without a physical exam. Some women, although not as common as many think, do bleed in the early months of pregnancy.

    Please make a doctor's appointment.

    OK, should I wait until I stop bleeding then go see a doctor, also one more question, umm say if I was pregnant and I had alcohole to drink would that kill my baby
  • Apr 23, 2007, 05:57 PM
    J_9
    You do not have to wait until you stop bleeding to see the doctor. It is most likely your period, but you should be on the safe side and see your doctor.

    If you had alcohol to drink, no it will not kill your baby, but prolonged exposure to alcohol can cause fetal abnormalities if the drinking continues.
  • Apr 23, 2007, 07:01 PM
    lfsxthnudie
    That pill could have given you an early abortion. Go to the doctor. My BF took one of those at home tests and it was negative- but her period never came so she when to the doc and she was pregnant. For s and giggles she took another test when she was 7 months pregnant and with a big belly- kicking and all- and it was still negative. Trust your body. Go to the doctor- even if your not or the baby is gone you may need a D&C or you could get a nast infection and can ruin your chances of having a baby in the future.
  • Apr 23, 2007, 07:26 PM
    lisa88
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lfsxthnudie
    That pill could have given you an early abortion. Go to the doctor. My BF took one of those at home tests and it was negative- but her period never came so she wen to the doc and she was pregnant. For s and giggles she took another test when she was 7 months pregnant and with a big belly- kicking and all- and it was still negative. Trust your body. Go to the doctor- even if your not or the baby is gone you may need a D&C or you could get a nast infection and can ruin your chances of having a baby in the future.

    But the lady at the chemist said taking a morn after pill won't lose a baby just prevent one from developing one, how much do you know about prgnancy I have a lot of answers I'm only young so I don't know much about it
  • Apr 23, 2007, 10:19 PM
    krittengirl
    [F]The morning after pill prevents the baby from attaching to the uterine wall which the baby must do to develop. If the baby has already attached itself then the pill will not keep you from being pregnant, but make sure you do go to the doctor as soon as possible.
    If you are pregnant then the doctor will want you to go on prenatal vitamins as soon as possible. Your body knows that it is caring for a baby and will give vitamins first to your baby and then to you, but there are some important vitamins to the babies health like folic acid that you probably do not get enough of in your diet.
  • Nov 28, 2007, 06:18 PM
    kayleigh1989
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lisa88
    just over a month ago me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex three times, in the last week i have been feeling very different, sore breasts, tierd, emotional, sore back, head aches, and very hungry but havnt been able to eat mainly at night. i brought two hpt both were negative so i thought i might not be pregnant but my period is 3 weeks late, because we had to negative hpt tests i thought i wasnt preg... last week when we had unprotected sex again i took the morn after pill two days after and have started to bleed, does this mean that i am not pregnant because im bleeding, its really weird because i really feel like im pregnant.. any one got any advice or information, would be really great..

    Well I think you should go to the doctors to get a test an get advice an try to use condoms if you are worring about getting pregnant.it sounds like you are to me because you have fgot the signs but go to your doctor an get an blood test it mite help you think more possative.

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