Okay... I don't even know how to start this.
I'm getting married on July 1st. BUT, I have a couple questions because my fiance's ex has a baby who she's claiming he's the father to. We're waiting on the papers so he can take the paternity test, but the question I have is this:
My fiance's ex used to live in VA. While they were still together, she felt the need to run back to NJ where her family lives, because she just didn't feel like being in VA anymore, however, she never let him know, so he was just stuck wondering why she'd left. Then about two months later she called him saying she was pregnant with his supposed child. At the time, she had been sleeping with another guy as well. Right now we've come to the conclusion that if this is his child, he wants to have some kind of custody if he's going to have to pay child support, but is that possible with her living in a different state? Also, once the child is old enough to know where he wants to be, will he be able to choose to live with his father, or will the courts rule against that? And, is there any way at all that the court would grant him main custody of the child at anyspecific time?