Intersecting identities offer us chances to connect
In this morning's newspaper (selected paragraphs for brevity):
Most of us live at the intersection of so many different boundaries — geographical, sexual, political, linguistic, racial. These intersecting identities offer us the opportunity to connect with each other on many different levels. Diversity forces us to move out of our comfort zone. The more you interact across different cultural platforms, disabilities, and social and sexual groups, the more you are forced to see things differently.
We must see people beyond labels; otherwise, we fall prey to what Nigerian writer Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie calls the “danger of a single story.”
Edouard Glissant, a writer from Martinique, said: “Thought of the other is sterile without the other of the Thought.” In other words, merely accepting that differences exist is not enough to generate deep change in our thinking. He calls for “aesthetics of turbulence,” which breaks assumptions and forces people to think differently, where each is changed and changes the other. The process is not easy, but through the process of adjustment and readjustment, we create a new hybrid culture.
Perspective taking, or looking at the world through the eyes of another person, and advocating for others are a few of the important tools to we can use to step up for each other.
Accepting and embracing diversity means paying attention to the lone voice that disagrees with the rest. As the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. said, “In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.”