Me and my girlfriend of 1 and 1/2 years recently broke up. She initially broke up with me, but then came back saying how much she missed me and wanted start things again slow, like dating, but only as friends. After a week of this just friends thing, I told her that we're either exclusive or over, because it was too confusing to date her as a friend only. I ended the dating thing after she said she wasn't ready to be a couple again. That was 6 days ago. I have been following the "No Contact" approach, still saying "Hi" when I ran into her, but don't call her, IM her (blocked her screename), text her, whatnot. However, 3 days ago she called for the first time asking if I wanted to get icecream and hang out. I told her that it wasn't a good idea, that I couldn't be her friend right now, and that I needed some space. The next night, she called AGAIN asking to get icecream. I said it wasn't a good idea, but she begged and pleaded and I gave in (I know, I shouldn't have, but I'm still in love 8( ). She told me how she missed me, and how I was still the first person she wanted to call when something happened, how she hasn't hooked up with anyone (I didn't even bring that up), and how she left the bar crying hysterically the other day (didn't say it was because of us, but I am assuming so). I AGAIN told her that we couldn't be friends, and that she needed to stop calling me. Later that night, I got another text saying "how is your night?" I didn't respond. She texted me again, today, asking to hang out and maybe go for a run. I am SO confused. I'm so confused, she doesn't seem to get the message. I want her back so bad, and she knows that. Why can't she just respect my wishes to have space and that I can't be her friend? Or does she want me back and just afraid to? WHAT DO I DO? :confused: