We had some issues and we weren't talking. But when my jaw broke he started talking to me out of sympathy and wants to be my friend again (jaw is still broken but I have bracers with rubber bands on it). What do I do?

And no flaming please

What do you want to do? Do you want to talk to this guy? Or do you want to turn the page and move on? Is he the one who broke your jaw? I don't care that you had sex or did not have sex, that is between you and him. But whatever problems were caused by that - why didn't he want to talk to you? Does he want to talk now? Are you willing to talk about whatever the problems were? Do you feel the problems are resolved? What are your feelings toward what happened between the two of you?

I guess I am asking all these questions because you are the only one that can decide this. You have to ask yourself these questions and ask yourself if talking to him is worth your time and energy. If you do not wish to speak to him, then don't. What do you owe him? Nada!

Whatever decision you make, just keep your own self respect and your own protection in mind. Best of all to you.

I think I'll just move on thanks

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Originally Posted by shygrneyzs

What do you want to do? Do you want to talk to this guy? Or do you want to turn the page and move on? Is he the one who broke your jaw? I don't care that you had sex or did not have sex, that is between you and him. But whatever problems were caused by that - why didn't he want to talk to you? Does he want to talk now? Are you willing to talk about whatever the problems were? Do you feel the problems are resolved? What are your feelings toward what happened between the two of you?

I guess I am asking all these questions because you are the only one that can decide this. You have to ask yourself these questions and ask yourself if talking to him is worth your time and energy. If you do not wish to speak to him, then don't. What do you owe him? Nada!

Whatever decision you make, just keep your own self respect and your own protection in mind. Best of all to you.

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Exactly what he/she said you need to decide what is it that you want? You need to decide that.

I think he's embarrassed about it since he edited it oh well maybe he'll post again.

You know a relationship is a relationship and I have seen over the years that the same issues that regular man/women relationships have, those in gay or lesbian relastionships have the same issues ( and a few special to them)

But in general if they came back out of pity, ti will not last, if they came back because they wanted to work on the relastionship then they will work on fixing it, Personally it sounds like one to move on for.