Invited to Shower, not Wedding
HI.. My nephew is getting married soon, and unfortunately a lot of people are feeling hurt by the choices that are being made. The bride is planning on inviting people to a shower but not to the wedding. Does this seem odd to anyone else? I love my nephew very much and want them to be very happy, but so many things they are doing is hurting people. My sister for one, the mother of the Groom. I would like to suggest to them since they feel they do not have the money for a wedding (even though many of us have offered our help) perhaps since they feel they must wed now... they should elope. Then send an announcement of their vows. I know I would send a present to the happy couple because of who they are even though they eloped, and it would stop all the bickering and hassle and hurt feelings that are going around to so many involved? Any suggestions?