So I'm a young teenager asking about sex. I really don't have the experience but I did experiment with someone. It was one of my friends we were together one night and I decided to do it but my question mainly is about viginity. I can say that I had a weird experience because I don't know if I actually lose it or not. So I was wondering if you had intercourse with someone and it just went it once then got out and you felt it go in but it really did not cause any pain would their be a possibly that he did not "pop the cherry" but did bleed a couple of days later very little. Would would it mean did it actually happen could any one tell you if your still a virgin. Because I know that the hymens can stretch but since no actually thrusting went on what would it mean. Because he had a hard time finding it and did not know anything since it was his first but I did feel it. I just need some clear unanswered questions because I have no knowledge about this issue.:confused:

As soon as you have intercourse even if it went in once you lost your virginity.

Even if you did not break the hymens are sometimes already broken at child hood or another event besides intercourse.

Some women bleed a lot and others hardly bleed at all.

So yes, even once. As soon as he went in. That is losing your virginity.

Joe

Joe is absolutley correct!

Well your not a virgin its like smoke ing pot even if you try you still did it and about the cherry part it has been proven it cand [pop] by anything even by just playing simple sports and might be mistaken as your period

Yep you lost your virginity. It only takes that once.
When I lost mine I thought the same thing, because I didn't bleed at all,(my Hubby tells me I did but I don't rememeber) So I talked to my Mom about it and she told me the same thing Joe said. Some girls bleed a lot others don't bleed at all, But either way I was not a virgin anymore.
Hope This Helps :)