There's a married man who joined a singing group I'm on at church back in September .He's very friendly that's his personality.We all know that he is married Now I am single so I don't talk to him unless we are all in group .
When he and his wife first came she smiled a few times but lately u notice when she looks at me she is very serious .It is me and me only she's not like that with everyone .I tried cracking a silent at her but she just looks like either unhappy or mad or no smile not sure how to say it .I saw her look at me wanted to say hi but I was too scared because how she looked .Another time I passed by her u looked u was going smile but she just looked and turned away
I did nothing to get at all

Why on earth did a married couple join a singles' group????

Sorry singing

Updated it's a singing group

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Sorry singing

Updated it's a singing group

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Ah! Now, that makes sense! Are you a lot younger than the married couple? I suggest that you greet them by name, and figure out something to talk with her about -- maybe the chosen song and how lovely it is or the need for instruments (or do you have them?).

Well they're late 50 I am 49.. She's not on the singing groups .ok I will try but she always looks mad or something .

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Well they're late 50 I am 49.. She's not on the singing groups .ok I will try but she always looks mad or something .

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Ask her, "How do we sound?" and "Do you have any suggestions to help us?" and "Please suggest a few songs we can try out."

But she doesn't sing with us she just comes to church she's not aber of the choir as he is and he's a guitarist.

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But she doesn't sing with us she just comes to church she's not aber of the choir as he is and he's a guitarist.

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If the opportunity comes up, ask her. Otherwise, ignore her.

For whatever reason she doesn't seem to like you, so leave her alone. Only she knows why and obviously she has no wish to discuss it. Why sweat it?

They get hated on by women who are tied down in relationships that are loveless and lifeless....these women hate the single woman's freedom.....My thoughts, only.