Well I think I know the answer but here it goes anyway
I dated this girl we went on 4 dates we both been burned a long time ago- but the 4th date was no so great I had family problems and whatever so -we did not spend the night in which we were into each other totally I know I felt it I think she did also- so Saturday came I emailed her nothing hmmm OK Sunday I called her I was kind of sick thast not me I actually had strong feelings fopr her now its been almost 2 weeks I am sure I am done or does she like me the same -- I went out with a girl 8 years that was so long ago and I wanted to open up not just have sex like I was doing and now I am so f#$# confused I am a former Marine though I was tough I know what love is and unsure if I should even attempt to email her again what if she did not get my email whatever --I talked to my buddies he said never do it let it go- I feel it as much as I try to kick away I am getting pulled back? I will listen to anyone...

I can tell you really like this girl but you keep trying to contact her and she is not replying. If she really liked you she would call you or email you. It seems more like she is really ignoring you. Don't waste your time. There is plenty other great women who would love to talk to you. Your friends are right, let it go.

Yes - maybe you were too available? Did you call her every day?

Did you take it slow at first?

Is there a way you could go see her?