Can I hire a private investigator to investigate someone who has filed a restraining order against me? I am not a stalker, my daughters mother has used this as a way to keep her from seeing me. The court ordered some time bit once three weeks ago my daughter had a black eye. And the mother has got allot of issues. See she is trying to get compleate custody based on lies, and I think that she is not even staying with the child that her parents are taking care of her.