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  • Apr 17, 2007, 11:55 PM
    nimmyajit
    Female orgasm
    Hai ,

    How can I find out whether my partner had orgasm or not. How to help the partner to have multiple orgasms.

    Njt
  • Apr 18, 2007, 12:45 AM
    Clough
    The following sites may be of help to you. I hope that they are.

    How to help your female partner have orgasms

    The female orgasm - TheSite.org

    Orgasm - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

    AskMen.com - Female orgasm

    How to Give a Female an Orgasm ; Increase Female Sex Drive
  • Apr 18, 2007, 02:50 AM
    Parajr
    Be bold and ask her if she had one. If she responds with a no this would be your oppoutunity to ask, "So baby, what do I need to do to make sure that you come more often." That worked for me. Usually when a female has masturbated or had other sexual partners they know what they like, or need in order to have an orgasm. Do what she says and feel like King-Ding-A-Ling. :)
  • Apr 18, 2007, 03:08 AM
    Clough
    You also may want to consult the advise placed on posts at the bottom of this page concerning similar questions to yours.
  • Apr 18, 2007, 04:23 AM
    Krs
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by nimmyajit
    hai ,

    how can i find out whether my partner had orgasm or not. how to help the partner to have multiple orgasms.

    njt

    How about asking him or her?
    Communication is always the key no matter the circumstances ;)
  • Apr 18, 2007, 10:26 AM
    EnglishRose
    Practice is the best way to ensure good results. Spend lots of time finding out exactly what she does and doesn't enjoy. Try to learn more than just one technique. Make sure you don't just concentrate on her genitals and boobs, men always make this mistake! Alternate between soft and gentle actions and slightly harder and faster movements. After a lot of time spent with one person you will learn to read them and know exactly what they are enjoying and when. If your partner is struggling to catch her breath then your doing a good job. Ask her to let you know when she's having fun by moaning genly when you do something. This will let you know and probablty really turn you both on too!
  • Apr 18, 2007, 07:57 PM
    anette
    Hai,


    I have experienced my partner ejaculating several times. She just trembles and discharge a sudden flow of fluid, which is quite different from the normal wetness. I have seen it most of the times when we were having it orally by stimulating the clitoris. It is quite easy to find out when she is going to come and often she admits that she had come which gives me lot of joy. She does not allow me to go down after that and she looks bit embarrassed, if I try to force my way down. It tastes and smells different for me which arouses me to the extreme .
    And in the end to make an entry into a come filled puzzy and offloading it, is a great experience, which I really enjoy.

    Good luck try it.
  • Apr 23, 2007, 06:46 PM
    lfsxthnudie
    If you are a man and your penis is inside her, you will feel her get very tight and wet, and then she may seem a bit exhausted.
  • Jun 17, 2007, 02:08 PM
    steffy_bear
    I agree with everyone. But if you tell her when you are about to then she might start and that's an extra turn on well at least to me because it makes me want to work extra hard to get them there and make it better.
  • Jun 18, 2007, 06:48 AM
    smoothy
    How do you get to Carnegie Hall?

    Practice, practice, practice.

    Every woman is different as to what and exactly where her buttons are. Some are multi-orgasmic, some aren't. Learn what makes her tick... what sets her off. In time you can get her off faster than you can get yourself off.

    And make sure she never feels she needs to lie about having an orgasm. That does nobody any good. She doesn't get off, and you end up thinking you are doing things right when you aren't and nobody ever gets to where they should be.

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