I have another question for all of you out there, if you don't mind? During sex with my boyfriend I get seriously gooey. Sometimes it's clear and sometimes it is a darker color, sometime I bleed a little bit. When we are done there is usually a big clean up. He has to clean himself up and I do too, then we have to clean the sheets. It's really messy and a little embarrassing. We use condoms all the time so I used to think it was the lube on them but then the color of my discharge is darker sometimes. I was just wondering if other women get as gooey? Or do I need to be looked at?
Thanks.

I get gooey too, but I don't bleed. Its not so much that we have to clean the sheets. Usually, my boyfriend cleans himself up a little, but there is never too much. I suggest going to the gyno if your wondering about it.

Could it be due to rough sex?

If you are concerned by all means go to your doctor. But rest assured it can be completely normal.

No. We don't have rough sex. My boyfriend is extra gentle because he is worried that he might be hurting me. I only bleed once in awhile and it's not flowing, it's just a little bit of spotting. But there is a lot of stuff that comes out.

You should probably go to your Gyno and ask about it. Is it dark most of the time, or just maybe like around your time of the month?

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Originally Posted by LuvMyMaltipoo

You should probably go to your Gyno and ask about it. Is it dark most of the time, or just maybe like around your time of the month?

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It is usually the most dark right after my period. But it stays fairly dark most of the time. I am on the pill so does that have anything to do with it?

It's possible the pill does have something to do with it but I can't tell you that for sure. It could be something completely normal, but you should definitely see your Gyno because all women are different.