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  • Apr 17, 2007, 05:19 PM
    Surrender17
    Is he worth dating?
    I've been dating my boyfriend for over 2 months, but there's been more recent and constant problems popping up. We're both 19 and he's in college. When we talk online and say, he doesn't want to keep talking about something i.e. our relationship problems, he just gets off or says I'm going, bye. I know it's never fun to talk about these things, but it must be done, right? But he's just so stubborn about things. He thinks I ask way too many questions and won't answer them if he thinks they're pointless or he doesn't need to answer them. I feel like it's a one-sided relationship and I'm doing all the chasing. I'm the one contacting him. I found out that he was possibly attending this National Make Out Day and he flipped when I asked him what was that all about. He said it was none of my business and that I was stupid for even asking. He even said he even may just go make out with someone. Now he says he just says things out of spite and that's what that was. But I asked him if he was still going to go and he said we'll see. He calls me names sometimes and doesn't talk to me when he doesn't feel like it, which is a lot. I feel like he doesn't know how to be in a relationship and that he just wants everything his way. I asked him what do we do if I still feel like he's treating me with no respect but he doesn't feel he is. He said we'll just go with each of our opinions. Please tell me if he's worth working with or if I really should just leave him. I care about him a lot, but it's all stressing me out so much. I don't feel like he's willing to work with me and do anything to make it better.:confused:
  • Apr 17, 2007, 05:28 PM
    VADawg
    It doesn't even sound to me like he wants to be with you. He doesn't want to talk to you about important things. Communication is the biggest part of a relationship.

    I'd end it now before the relationship goes any further.

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