I have a serious question that I need help with. Me and my husband were married last year and we sent our marriage license off. Well, it turned out that our license was lost and they could do nothing about it. We never got another one. Well, here we are today and still no license. I feel that even though I am not legally married I was and am married in God's eyes... my husband don't feel the same way... he says that in order to be married you need to be legal. But I feel we had a beautiful wedding in front of God, family and friends and I feel that I am married. He really doesn't see himself as married even though we got married in the church and he is too keen on getting another license. My question would be to anyone that could help... Are we married in God's eyes even though we are not legal? Is it so wrong for me to know and feel that I am married even though it isn't legal? In God's eyes... Are we married? PLEASE HELP! Thanks.

I would say - yes you are married. It is just a technicallity due to the license and it's not "legal". For other reasons I would get your license ASAP. You will need for tax and insurance purposes.

God is the least of your worries--I can't imagine he cares much about what happened to the piece of paper. For lots of mundane earthly reasons, you need to clear it up and get it recorded and officially legal.

In the eyes of god - yes

Unfortunately society doesn't look at it that way.

I agree with OrdinaryGuy, it needs to be cleared up and officially recorded.

Marriage is a covenant between a man a woman and God, not the state. Yes in order for legal purposes you need to get the licence, but definitely in God's eye's you are husband and wife. Think of it this way If you lived in a foreign country or were marooned on an island would that mean it would be impossible for you to ever get married? Of course not. Marriage licences are a product of our society. They have not always been around. Now if you or your husband were to refuse to get the licence, I would question the commitment, but otherwise you can be at peace with yourself and the situation.
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On most days of my married life, I have not needed my license. It is tucked away somewhere. I actually had to request a copy a couple of years ago because I lost the original. Was I less married? No.
I needed for my insurance. That's it.

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Originally Posted by krittengirl

Marriage is a covenant between a man a woman and God, not the state. Yes in order for legal purposes you need to get the licence, but definitely in God's eye's you are husband and wife. Think of it this way If you lived in a foreign country or were marooned on an island would that mean it would be impossible for you to ever get married? Of course not. Marriage licences are a product of our society. They have not always been around. now if you or your husband were to refuse to get the licence, I would question the commitment, but otherwise you can be at peace with yourself and the situation.

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I agree, very nice answer.

All this and license and state laws are not God made... But man made...

You were married in the name of God, in a church right? Then why worry...

YOU ARE MARRIED IN THE EYES OF GOD.... Cheer up lady.....

All this and license and state laws are not God made... But man made... :D

You were married in the name of God, in a church right? Then why worry...

YOU ARE MARRIED IN THE EYES OF GOD.... Cheer up lady.....:) ;) :p

Not only are you married in the eyes of God, but if you got divorced for immoral reasons (these include the egocentric liberal garbage), then future marriages would be adultery. You cannot get married in front of God and then divorced in front of a lawyer. You cannot get married in front of a lawyer and not God. The license is meaningless. But they can be convenient.