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  • May 24, 2017, 12:37 PM
    hazard10
    Is the ball in her court or mine? Should I ask her out again?
    So I've been talking to this girl recently. I got her number after class one day and we messaged for a week or so while I was in Amsterdam. Last Thursday I asked her to go out to lunch sometime, indicating my interest in her. I suggested we take a break from summer work and go out and she told me she needed to get some work done but she would next week. It's next week. Should I ask her again later this week or wait for her to bring it up?
  • May 24, 2017, 12:57 PM
    joypulv
    You should ask her again. Nothing wrong with today.
    When you ask someone out, don't say 'sometime.' Pick a day and time and occasion. She will either say OK, or 'good but let's pick a different day,' or she will say something vague. Given that you were vague, she was understandably vague. Once you get specific, you will have a better idea of her feelings.
  • May 24, 2017, 02:58 PM
    Oliver2011
    Agreed. She needing to get some work done was probably an honest response.
  • May 24, 2017, 05:18 PM
    tickle
    Go for it, dude ��
  • May 24, 2017, 05:30 PM
    talaniman
    Of course you ask her out again, but as was said be specific.

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