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seeking_advice
First off thanks for taking the time to read this and giving your feedback. So one day I was kicking back with my fiancé and she made a comment about pics of me with an ex on FB and Instagram, not in a mean way just kind of laughing about it. I told her that I already removed them from Instagram. So we went on Instagram and checked and I did. I countered because she had pics with her ex on Insta, FB, and more than likely other media but I wouldn’t know because I didn’t have any other acct. She removed them from insta…
Now before I dive too deep into the story I can tell she has a hard past with her ex and despite what she lies to me and says, she did love him and she may still be trying to get over him. So she said all pics removed. I go on a few days later onto FB her acct still has all the pics of him on there, now no big deal if we were just dating but we’re engaged so I think getting rid of pics and love notes from our ex’s would be simple/stupid believe me this girl is incredibly intelligent, so simple and stupid don’t correspond to her at all. So I confront her on it and she pretends that she didn’t even think about it, now girls never forget stuff like that especially when they tell you to get rid of the stuff while they’re doing the same.
So all’s well then my buddy convinces me to finally get this other social media app that he’s been trying to for years. So I get it and go to her profile to add her as a friend. Not one pic of us together and I’m thinking it’s more of a professional thing for her. I scroll down towards the bottom and it’s full of pics of the 2 of them when they dated with a bunch of hearts and love things. So this confirms I was right she did love him, no big deal, but she is huge on not even letting a tiny lie out. If I wore blue shoes and I tell her I wore black she would be pissed, that big of a deal to her. So these posts and pics are in her profile, still after all the drama earlier.
What do you guys/girls think I should do? Is she ready for marriage? I may have left something out you can always ask.