Hi, I'm latin-american and I know this guy since last summer. We began to date in January 2007. I'm 22, he's 34 years-old. He's divorced since 3 yrs ago. We made a connection, but after my first time havin' sex with him, he ran to the shower leavin' me on the bed. I felt very bad and when he came back I ignored him. Problems began here. He said I disappointed him because I ignored him. Since 2 months nothing is the same. He calls me or txt messages me in occasions to spend time together. He said that he wants to take things more slowly. We had sex only 2 times in this 3 months we're seein' each other.

I barely find him when I call. He says he likes me because I'm a great woman, but the main problem are my clothes. He says I need to be better-dressed. Not in a manner of being vulgar or extremely sexy (because I'm educated in a very moral home), but to wear makeup and pretty clothes. He's this kind of man that is well-dressed. I'm very confused because he says he wants to reconcile and begin to date again like those days when everything was fine. I feel he has no interest at all, because everything is the same I call or txt message him, but no answer. I see he wants to see me only when he feels to. I told him no more sex if we reconcile things. He said: "ok, I have no problem... you know since the beginning I want a serious relationship with you".

Somebody help me... I don't know what to do... or what to think. :confused:

THANK YOU!

HE is the one who sounds very insecure.