When guys say make love instead of just saying let's have sex

Semantics.

As a married woman, married to the love of my life for 21 years, I have never once said "let's make love", nor has my husband. Too wishy washy romance novel for me. That sappy talk makes me sick. I'd rather he pin me against the wall and say things I can't write here. That really gets me in the mood. But the words you say before and during sex, have nothing to do with the relationship. Just because a man says he wants to make love, doesn't mean he loves you.

So, would a guy say let's make love if he didn't mean it? Sure he would. Making love is sex. A guy will definitely ask to have sex any time he can. Words don't mean anything, actions do. So focus on how he treats you when you're not having sex, not the words he says when he wants to get laid.

Based on your questions I find it very hard to believe that you're an adult. I think we're being played with. You're really a 12 year old girl, aren't you? You talk and act like a 12 year old girl. Your maturity is that of a 12 year old girl. No way you're actually an adult. If you are, well, no words. I can't believe any adult would be as clueless about relationships and sex as you are. I mean wow! Just wow!

Lisa, I have to ask, what country do you live in?

Completely speechless... she asked a very similar question recently as well... and as always didn't listen to the advice in it or comprehend it either.

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