Thinking with the WRONG head?
I have been dating my current girlfriend for four months now. The first month her attitude was perfect. She was everything she said she was. We enjoyed each other's company and were good to each other. After a month or so, she said she wasn't happy and wanted to start going out together more. We did, but she would always find something to complain about. We would usually go out shopping on weekends. I'd cook for her and rub her feet while we watched movies.
I would buy her stuff and she would surprise me with stuff... BUT a few weeks after she would surprise me with a gift, she would complain that she's spending all of her money on me and that I ask her to buy me things. I never did. How can I ask her to buy me things if she surprises me with them?
For the past two months she makes mountains out of mull hills, says very immature and hurtful things. Last week she called me a "Piece of S**t" over a silly argument. She says I'm too close with my family and its weird that I hug and kiss my mom. She also said from the beginning that she doesn't like talking about our jobs. Which is weird to me because we are both in our late 20's and I feel talking about that kind of stuff is healthy.
Anyway, She's a beautiful girl, short and petite, great figure, beautiful face and just crazy in bed. She's dirty and just the perfect kind of girl you would want in bed. I'm getting to the point where I feel all that isn't worth putting up with all her problems and attitude. She can't communicate well at all. She gets cocky and very rude. My younger brother has a mental disability and I am very close with him. My girlfriend and him get along well, but last night she told me he's weird and "not right". That really hurt. Sometimes I stay with my family to help my mom out and spend time with them. My room hasn't changed since I left and she makes fun of it when she comes over.
I'll be honest with myself and everyone here, I know if it wasn't for the sex, I would end things in a heartbeat. Why is it so hard to let her go? The past 2 months I can't go two days without her over reacting. I was grilling lunch outside a few days ago in 95 degree weather. I had a hat and sunglasses on. She complained that I'm afraid of the outdoors and afraid to be one with the earth? Just because I wore a hat and sunglasses to keep the sun and heat off me.
Advice please.