I would also like to inquire about the fact that I have never had an orgasm with my husband. We have been married for ten years, but have been together for 12 years. I am unable to orgasm with him through oral sex, manual stimulation, or intercourse. I do not have any problem having an orgasm on my own. I have been faking it with him for twelve years. Could it be that he isn't any good, or could it be physical or psychological on my part? :confused: